Plans? Hah!

So, things are unfolding in a completely different way than I thought they would. I thought for sure that I would make a plan with E, or maybe P. But both of them seem to have disappeared since Labor day weekend. I've left two messages for each of them which have not been returned and neither one of them have returned the papers to my lawyer. However, J has been in constant contact with her MO lawyer that my lawyer recommended and has sent back her papers. She is caucasian, the father is AA and it is a boy- not exactly the scenario that was in my head, but we are going ahead and I am excited. Not took excited though- I called her a couple of days ago and have yet to hear back. Also,she was recently hit by a car and so the possibility of early labor is very real.