I haven't written in a while, but I do have updates. Labor day weekend I got callbacks from 3 of the expectant moms I am in contact with.
1. P from MO- she has a bit of drama surrounding her which worries me a little. She was in a common law marriage with the father of this baby- he left, now he wants her to move somewhere with him. It sounds like he was abusive and she is saying no.. for now.. but who knows what will happen. She has not told him about the adoption plan. He smashed her car and has she has no way to get to the doctor. She is not even sure of how far along she is. BUT she kept telling me that she felt connected to me and she didn't think she would feel this way about another person's ad and she hoped I was committed. I told her I was but until she gets confirmation of pregnancy to my lawyer my hands are tied.
2. E from PA called me back- told she had spent a week at her father's house and her cell phone fell in the pool and she did not have my number which is why she had not returned my calls. She was very apologetic and confirmed her commitment to me. She told me she was going to send the papers back the next day. We had a nice conversation. I called her a couple of days ago and left another message.
3. J from MO- she had actually had a brief conversation with my lawyer and had Suzanne refer her to a lawyer in MO. I spoke to her again this week- she was getting the paperwork together to send to Suzanne this week. She expressed how glad she was that she had answered my ad and that she knew she was making the right decision. She seems really stable and a good prospect.
So, here we have it. Still no commitment, but 3 real good potentials. I will call the lawyer this week to see if she has received any of the paperwork from these women.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Upside of the roller coaster
Posted by Naomi at 7:50 PM
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